The Man of My Life
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DVD Cover Information Actor: Bernard Campan, Charles Berling, Léa Drucker, Niels Lexcellent Director: Zabou Breitman DVD: Region Code 1 Audio: French (Original Language); English (Subtitled) Format: Closed-captioned, Color, Dolby, DTS Surround Sound, DVD-Video, NTSC, Subtitled, Widescreen Picture Format: 1.85:1 Running Time: 114 minutes DVD Release Date: 2007-11-20 Audience Rating: Unrated Studio: Strand Releasing |
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Movie Reviews of The Man of My Life
Movie Review: "THE CASE OF THE LITTLE CHAIR BY THE BED"..............
Summary: 5 Stars
...........or: "FRED DISCOVERS HE'S BEEN MISSING SOMETHING" (alternate title for this review).
((Here is my approach to obtaining/viewing/reviewing Gay tales in film form. Simply, it's seeking the holy grail of that genre, or looking for the "Addictive Film"---that movie one returns to time and again). Selection/purchase is based mainly on finding new releases by favorite directors/screenwriters and/or your comments/reviews at major online film sales or review sites. Sometimes I feel correctly steered by you (the "Keepers" filling my DVD shelves), other times mislead, occasionally badly (the "Throwaways"----and I do toss 'em). Rarely, I come across the "Addictive," those watchable every couple of months or so (see below starred *** area for a list......and some "near-Addictive" as well). For some movies, I'll share a review with you, as follows. Thanks for sticking with me so far.))
This is a love story.........a falling-in-love story. Yes, it's a love story, pure and simp.... Oh, wait, maybe it's not so simple after all. Why? Well, just think how shattering it must be to have spent the majority of your adult life in a happy and loving heterosexual marriage.......only to have another ordinary day come along, one in which you unexpectedly meet a someone of the same sex........and you suddenly face the beginnings of a new love. That's what this film is about, and the DVD back cover description of the story also lays it out for us in a nutshell:
{"While on holiday at his family's home in Provence, Frederic's seemingly perfect family life is disrupted when he meets his neighbor, a graphic artist named Hugo. Suddenly, Frederic's entire existence is thrown out of order as the two men develop an attraction to each other, both intelllectually and emotionally, which destroys the once perfect relationship between Frederic and his wife."}
In this "typically French" film, we're fairly quickly introduced to two men: Frederic ("F"), a seemingly happily married man with a wife (Frederique), child and extended family residing in their vacation villa. We first see scenes not only of this fairly large group's family interactions, but also intimate interludes between just this man and his wife. Closeness, caressing and kissing abound in this couple's first scenes (but, wait.......we then discover that physical intercourse on his part seems to have become difficult to achieve). We then meet our second male lead, Hugo ("H"), a graphic designer who resides next door. He's an unashamedly "out" gay man who, through the course of the film, becomes as increasingly fascinated with "F" as Frederic becomes with him. "H" is a man who happily and easily frequents a local gay bar, as well as "entertains" a string of handsome young men in his home. One of the first times we and Frederic are invited into "H's" home/studio we are confronted by a stunningly beautiful, young god of a man----nude and seemingly levitated far above our heads in a semi-fetal, sleeping position. It is an image that any famed museum/gallery in the world would die for. It is later on in this same residence's main, living area walls that we will see projected an ever changing and increasing array of letters, words, phrases (apparently produced by the sun's light entering large windows on which these letters, etcetera, have been placed). They appear, move and fade with changes in the sun's position and brightness. We come to discover these words and phrases have originated in the two men's second meeting-up, at a family party, followed by an into-the-wee-morning-hours, one-on-one conversation between just the two of them (Frederic's discovery of this wall projection phenomenon indicates to him the importance to Hugo of that first night's lengthy interaction between them). It should be noted that we visit and revisit this hours long conversation, which touches on life philosophy and love, at various points throughout the entire film. It's during these hours, as their comfort with one another deepens, that we watch as Hugo becomes more touchy-feely with Frederic, who himself becomes more comfortably at ease. In a revealing moment, we then witness their time together coming to its early morning conclusion, with "H" leaving for home, while softly voicing to "F" the ultimate in personal compliments. I must ask here what would be your reaction, dear reader, if your newfound, and liked, departing companion directed to you the words, "You're devastating?" Ah, yes.......well, for Frederic it obviously becomes the start of something completely new and different in his life.
Complimenting these intensely personal and emotional scenes, there is a stunningly beautiful progression of outdoor / landscape scenes, one in particular showing the two men on a morning run, with an ankle-injured Frederic being carried home on Hugo's back. "H" wends their way through a very large field of what appears to be blooming garlic (unusually lovely, to say the least), and then through a huge and magnificent field of sunflower blooms. Tellingly, "F's" arms are clasped around "H's" shoulders and neck, with the side of his face resting against the back of Hugo's head (and this is the scene unhappy wife, Frederique, sees upon their arrival at the villa). There shortly follows a quickening of the feelings between the two as we watch a recuperating Frederic, half dozing on a patio lounge chair, and then sensing the presence of another. He opens his eyes to a quietly arrived and serious faced Hugo. A smile slowly lighting his features, "H" utters: "I came to see about you. I'll get back to work now." The look of self-satisfaction then appearing on "F's" face tells us more than could a thousand words.
Perhaps the most significant indication of the depth of growth in the relationship of these two men occurs near film's end, upon Frederic's learning of Hugo's impending temporary departure from the area. Limping his way to seek out "H," he finds him outside the area's gay nightclub. Responding to Hugo's questions, "Why did you come? Why are you here? You want to tell me something?" Frederic responds: "You're leaving-----." Frederic then approaches "H" to bring them standing as physically close as possible, forehead to forehead, eyes closed. After a few moments, Frederic turns suddenly and departs (it is this scene's DVD Chapter heading that the film director has labeled: "In Love"----methinks she knows of what she speaks).
Moving on to other facets of this production, the film also contains any number of strange / unusual----and surreal-ish----scenes and camera shots, which include:
-- A weirdly located string quartet, set up and playing / practicing(?) at night in nothing larger than a tumbledown, yet strangely well lit, chicken coop (for want of a better description). The only viewing-in access to their performance seems to be a very small, dirty and opaque-ish window through which we see peering in at various times, first, the Halloween-like masked heads of children, then the head of "F" and, later, the side-by-side heads of both our male leads.
-- A nighttime village dance scene with that same quartet providing sensuous tango music for a beautiful young male / female couple's performance (scene later on morphs to that of a male / male performance to the same music strains).
-- A brief, close up view of slowly moving, crystal clear water in which only the long, very blond tresses of someone's unseen head are shown dreamily drifting and swirling (wife, Frederique's hair is of this color).
-- A late scene involving Hugo's standing before a gigantic, red door (he had earlier mentioned his family's home having a (normal sized) red one, so we do feel somewhat safe in concluding that this near end of film image relates to an earlier in life instance of his being kicked out by his own family----bet you have no trouble at all in arriving at what that resulted from).
-- There are other such unusual shots throughout the film, and if any of you out there is aware of their meanings, please feel free to provide your Comments in that area below. A strong wish on my part is that our lady director had taken the time in her DVD Special Feature comments to enlighten us in these matters (or, perhaps, her goal was for us to reach our own interpretations and conclusions). Additionally, there are things about the setup of this film that, to this viewer, are less than successful. There is an over abundance of scenes involving Frederic's extended family that seem virtually unnecessary to the progress of the film, chief of which are those involving possible rape of a young female. This scene definitely detracts from the forward progress of the film, as does the need for a couple of less than sensical family swimming forays.
Lastly, having just shortly ago spoken of Frederique ("F's" spouse), this movie can be pretty much described as one, long downhill slide for her, emotionally and relationship-wise. Her last scenes are ones of frantic----and nude----ravings over her perceived connubial losses. AND, as to what Fred's future lifestyle plans for himself are, you'll have to watch this film and decide for yourself. To help you a little in doing so, in his last scene he does say to his sleeping small son: "I'm wobbly, imperfect, broken pawed, heart-in-tatters. I love you, but know I still have to grow up. I'll come back. I'll come back to spar with you again." This leads us to ask, at near middle age, what kind of growing up and finding out about himself does he still have left to do? Is he on the verge of departing.......and if so, will it be with someone?
So, dear readers of this page and viewers of this film, what do you think is the meaning of his final words........and what can they possibly portend for Hugo?
PS--Speaking of meanings, if you're wondering about this review's title (...little chair by the bed), you'll just have to check out the film for yourself. Happy viewing.
PPS--This film is becoming "Addictive." ***Other such habit formers: Just a Question of Love / Shelter / Brokeback Mountain (Widescreen Edition) / Boy Culture / All Over the Guy / Second Skin (Unrated Version) / The Man I Love / Latter Days (Unrated Edition) / The Mudge Boy
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